Welcome to
all college students beginning their Fall semesters! While some universities
are just getting started, the Bods already have a full week under their belts.
Here’s wishing everyone a wonderful start to this academic year.
Now that we
are stepping back into college life, this blog is going to get a bit more
focused. I will be taking on some more specific topics relating to us as
beginner adults, the college lifestyle, campus events, and the like. I’ll also
be including some links for you guys to other information or extras that I find
fascinating and resourceful.
So let’s
begin!
First, a
note to this year’s freshman: Welcome! I so appreciate seeing all of you on
campus. I love seeing all of the new faces as well as some already familiar. A
few friends of my own have joined the Ichabod family this year!
(Photo
credit goes to Anthony Hendricks.)
Already, I
see you guys settling in very well. You are finding your groups, people with
common interests and hobbies. You are making your way through your classes and
finding new ways to study and explore information. You are getting involved
with campus, looking for ways to connect with others and the community. It is
beautiful to watch.
There are
some serious adjustments to make regarding responsibilities in college –
specifically, academically and socially.
There are
difficult decisions to make even in just the first few weeks of class. You may
decide you have to find a job…or quit a job. You may need to rearrange your
classes, or take different classes altogether. I’ve already had to drop one
class and make some changes in my schedule. Realizing when you have too heavy
of a load is extremely important, by the way. Do not overwork yourself. Talk to
people. Talk to your advisors. Talk to your professors. Get a feel for the kind
of load you can handle.
The second
part of this is regarding roommates and the friends you make on campus. I
cannot express this enough, bonding is important! Spend time with your roommates
and experience each other. Learn what each other’s expectations are and how to
respect those boundaries. If you have any sort of trouble coming to an
agreement, you can always take it to an RA. They are all super helpful and
willing to give you dorm-living advice. In class, do take the time to get to
know those around you. IT IS SCARY, I KNOW. And it feels super sketchy to be
the one who initiates a conversation with a stranger. But it could be worth it!
I met my best friends on campus just by taking risks and getting to know people
in ways that were totally out of my comfort zone.
So here’s to
the start of a wonderful semester! Go forth and make it great! I can’t wait to
see where this year leads…